New Year…New Beginning

 

Every year there is a 31st December and then comes the 1st January. Everyone has their own way to welcome the New year. Some get drunk, some want a good high, some go loud and crazy, some like it quiet. Every year we move on from the previous year to a new one with lots of Positivity, Excitement, Resolutions, Dreams, Hopes, Love and plan to make this year the best one we have ever had.

New Year is a beautiful way to start up something new or something fresh. Yes…it’s just another day like the rest of the year (I have heard a lot of people say that). But there is something which makes this day really special. It’s the vibe around this day, it’s the feeling of something new starting, it’s the positivity,  it’s the hope of putting everything behind and starting afresh. These feelings make it extremely special and important.

Every year we make plans for the New year. Some people want to quit smoking, some want to be single. Some people want to buy a new car, some want a bigger house, some people want a better job, some want a salary hike.

This year let’s make one more list. A list of things you want to do for yourself. To make the ‘Inner You’ happy. Forget about everything the world or the society wants you to achieve. Forget about your job or your bank account or your expensive cars. Think about the real you. What do ‘YOU’ want to achieve in this new year. The year that is full of light and life and beauty. Make a list of things you want to do to make yourself happy. Things that’ll help you to grow. Not materialistic growth but the real one. Growth of the soul. And don’t just think it in your head, go ahead and actually make one. Write it down. At least 6 things you want to achieve in 2018 for yourself. It could be anything. Stupid, crazy, bizarre, funny, as far as its making you happy Go Ahead.

For so many years we have been working on a ‘To do List’ which in the bigger picture doesn’t even matter. Let’s start working on the list that will matter. A list that’ll help us Grow…from within.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

#LetThePositivityFlow

FEEL!

A friend once told me that we are slowly turning into a generation who is Scared…Scared of everything. Scared to Trust, Scared to Experience, Scared to Talk, Scared to even Feel. And I think she is right. We are turning away and running from the most basic thing we have as human beings…Emotions.

We always see people tell each other to be happy always. Its great. We should all be happy but being happy ‘all the time‘ is not possible. Its not practical and its not good. We can’t possibly be happy all the time. And the point here is It’s Ok. Its ok to be sad or angry or whatever and not be happy sometimes. We as human beings are blessed with so many Emotions and it won’t be fair if we don’t experience them all. Experiencing Jealousy or Sadness or Anger is as big a blessing as being Happy is. This at least proves that we still Feel. In this generation of machines all around we are still very much Alive.

Don’t be this generation who is scared to Feel, scared to Experience. Don’t stop yourself from being Happy because you are scared of being sad, don’t stop yourself from trusting someone because you are scared of being cheated on, don’t stop yourself from falling in Love because you are scared of a heartbreak, DON’T STOP. Please. FEEL. EXPERIENCE. LEARN.

 

Start!

I never considered myself to be the ‘writer sort’ , but over a period of time I understood one simple thing that somewhere deep down inside there is always a writer in each one of us. Sitting there to write , to express, to explore. And the best thing to do is LET IT OUT!

I have been planning to start writing for a real long time but for the past couple of months the feeling is so strong that I feel I have so much to say, so much to share and express. I feel I am at my Positive best. Real happy from within and it gets better with every passing day. Then why not share it? Right?

So here I am, writing my first blog. At 2:30AM , sitting in my room with a big smile on my face.

 Yes, I am really excited. 

I just saw Sully with a friend . 

(For those of you who don’t know Sully is a Hollywood film with Tom Hanks in the lead role. It has just released and if you haven’t seen it yet please go watch it.)

So I saw this film and it left me with this weird feeling inside. I was extremely happy with the film. I loved it. I loved how everyone survived but still I felt a little something inside me. Some sort of emptiness (if that makes any sense). I don’t know how to explain what I felt. But I kept thinking about it. I was constantly thinking about something without knowing what exactly I was thinking about. We all have our inner self talking to us all the time. Sometimes we listen , sometimes we ignore. At this point there was something which I felt so strong about but didn’t know what exactly. I knew I wanted myself to understand something, to learn something about life…but what? 

I believe in Omens. They are the signs universe is trying to guide us with. They are the voice of your inner self . Never ignore them. 

There are situations when everyone is asking you to do something which is good for you, which is also practical at that point and will get you lots of good things in life. But You on the other hand want to do something else and you feel that’s what is right for you. No matter how impractical it may sound somewhere it’s making you happy from within. It’s making you feel Positive. That’s your inner voice. And you’ll see certain things around you which will make your belief even stronger. That’s an Omen. They are guiding you towards what’s right for the real you, Your Soul. 

After thinking for a while I knew what was bothering me. We, in today’s generation are all running behind everything that’s materialistic. We want Money , fame, big cars , expensive phones, etc. We are constantly planning for our future which we have no idea about. I am not saying securing your future is wrong, but not living your present to secure your future is wrong. 

What would have I done if I was on a flight which is about to crash?

The only thing on my mind at that point would be my loved ones. Not the money or the BMWs .

I knew this was the thought which was making me feel empty and upset. As soon as I realised this I felt perfectly normal. I could sense the vibes change. And trust me, it’s super easy to understand such a small lil thing. Let’s just learn to value our present first. Lets make our relationships important not the phones or the iPads. Lets live in the present  because that’s all we have. We all are so Blessed to be here. The real motive of our existence is not just to Grow as a person but to grow as a Soul. We all are amazing. Every soul is beautiful. Let’s cut all barriers and love each other. Let’s not judge people. Souls have no Religion, No country, No Status, NOTHING. Let’s just…Grow as a soul.

And

 #LetThePositivityFlow 😇😇